Resilient individuals bounce back quickly—or better still, they don't get upset by the setback, looking strong and even heroic—when they encounter a setbackby Parker on TwosResilient individuals bounce back quickly—or better still, they don't get upset by the setback, looking strong and even heroic—when they encounter a setbackFragile individuals become flustered, angry, or even despondent when encountering a setback and tend to be unhappy, and their friends and relatives may pity them rather than admire themBeing a victim relieves you of responsibility for many of the aspects of your life that have gone wrong. It entitles you to special treatment. Though, playing the role of victim is likely to increase the anguish you experience as the result of the wrongs that are done you. You will feel emotionally helplessA resilient person will refuse to play the role of victim. They are strong and capable. They may not be able to control whether they are a target of injustice, but they have considerable control over how they respond to being targeted. They can let it ruin their day and possibly their life, or they can respond to it bravely, remaining upbeat while they look for workarounds to the obstacles that people have wrongly placed in their path