Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkemanby Parker on TwosYou usually know, intuitively, whether remaining in a relationship or job would present the kind of challenges that will help you grow as a person or the kind that will cause your soul to shrivel with every passing weekChoose uncomfortable enlargement over comfortable diminishment whenever you canLet your impossible standards crash to the ground. Then pick a few meaningful tasks from the rubble and get started on them todayIt’s alarming to face the prospect that you might never truly feel as though you know what you’re doing, in work, marriage, parenting, or anything else