When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chödrönby Parker on TwosUnwise selfish people think only of themselves, and the result is confusion and pain. Wise selfish people know that the best thing they can do for themselves is to be there for others. As a result, they experience joyWe have a lot of opinions, and we tend to take them as truth. But actually they aren't truth. They are just our opinionsOpinions are opinions, nothing more or lessWe can just let those opinions go, and come back to the immediacy of our experience