The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holidayby Parker on Twos"The first thing to do—don't get worked up. For everything happens according to the nature of all things, and in a short time you'll be nobody and nowhere. The next thing to do—consider carefully the task at hand for what it is, while remembering that your purpose is to be a good human being. Get straight to doing what nature requires of you, and speak as you see most just and fitting—with kindness, modesty, and sincerity." - Marcus AureliusFirst, don't get upset—because that will color your decision negatively and make it harder than it needs to beSecond, remember the purpose and principles you value most. Running potential actions through this filter will eliminate the bad choices and highlight the right oneDon't get upset. Do the right thing. That's it