The Courage to Be Dislikedby Andi on TwosIf you end up staying in aetiology, you will be bound to the past and never be able to find happiness - this quote is when I started feeling like I could actually grow and heal by focusing on teleologyIf you change your lifestyle - the way of giving meaning to the world and yourself - then both your way of interacting with the world and your behavior will change as well. Do not forget this point: one will have to changeWishing so hard to be recognized will lead to a life of following expectations held by other people who want you to be ‘this kind of person’. In other words, you throw away who you really are and live other people’s livesTo gain an understanding of the community feeling, it is advisable to use 'you and I' as the starting point. You make the switch from attachment to self (self-interest) to concern for others (social interest)“We’re equal, just not the same”It is about having concern for others, building horizontal relationships and taking the approach of encouragement. All these things connect to the deep life awareness of ’I am of use to someone’, and in turn, to your courage to live