The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Mansonby Parker on TwosThe avoidance of struggle is to struggle.Pick what matters to you based upon personal values. Say f*ck it to everything that doesn't matter to you in life.If you reserve your f*cks for only the things that matter, you'll perform better on what's important.Have meaningful things to give your f*cks about.Maturity is learning to only give a f*ck about what is f*ckworthy.Happiness occurs when solving problems you enjoy having.Solve problems. Be happy.Who you are is defined by what you are willing to struggle for.Our struggles determine our success.People that become great at something become great because they understand they are not already great.You will have a growing appreciation for life's basic experiences. Basic friendship, creating something, helping a person in need, reading a good book, laughing with someone you care about.Self-awareness is an onion. There are multiple layers and the more you pull back, you will start crying.Chip away at what you are doing wrong today so you can do a little less wrong tomorrow.