The Power of Nowby IanWilly on TwosA victim identitiy is the belief that the past is more powerful than the present which is the complete opposite. It is the belief that other people and what they did to you are responsible for who you are now and for your emotional vulnerability. The truth is that the only power there is, is contained within this moment: it is the power of your presence. Once you know that, you also realize that you are responsible for your inner space now -- nobody else is -- and that you cannot prevail against the power of now