“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.“ -Eleanor Roosevelt . The things that stand out to us the most about other people are the things that remind us the most of ourselves. . If somebody bugs you, you're projecting onto them something that you don't like about yourself, and if you think they're awesome, they're reflecting back something that you see in yourself that you like (even if it's not developed in you yet). . Your reality is created by what you focus on and how you choose to interpret it. . ⭐️ The people you surround yourself with are excellent mirrors for who you are and how much, or how little, you love yourself. . Our reality is a mirror of our thoughts, the people in our reality included. . It is about respecting yourself, instead of catering to your insecure needs to be liked. . ⭐️ Never apologize for who you are. It lets the whole world down. . ===. How to get rid of your lame projections and judgements and grace the world with your highest, most unapologetic self. Own your ugly . Question your ugly . Who do I need to be for this situation to not bother me? What am I getting out of being this way? . How would I feel if I wasn't this way? Don't be an enabler . Give painful people the heave-ho. Love Yourself. Fiercely, loyally, unapologetically.