Getting clear about what your unique purpose is can be the difference between living a happy, fulfilled life of abundance, choice, and expansiveness or living in the restrictive veal pen of your own decision and tired old excuses. When we share what we were brought here to give, we are in alignment with our highest, most powerful selves. How to get clear on who you are and what your calling is:. Be the alien: imagine that you’re an alien floating around in outer space and you suddenly swoop down to Earth and inhabit your body. How are you going to use this body and this existence to create something fabulous and awesome starting right now? This exercise is hugely helpful for getting a new perspective and stepping outside of our boring-ass ruts of tired old excuses and lame habits. Sometimes it’s as simple as looking at things with new eyes to see how astoundingly fortunate we are. Take the first right step: instead of wasting hours and days and years trying to figure out your perfect next move, just DO something already. ⭐️ Get out of your head and take action. Most answers reveal themselves through doing, not thinking. Do your best wherever you’re at: once you take your first step, it’s possible that you won’t land in your dream situation right away (add it’s OK!). You might land on a stepping-stone. ⭐️ No matter where your first step lands you, if you want to keep moving forward, appreciate wherever you’re at instead of feeling ashamed or grouchy or impatient about it. Everything about your journey contributes to where you’re going. Don’t reinvent the wheel: look around and see what other people are doing. Whose life makes you totally jealous? Get specific about the things in their lives that turn you on. The more specific you get, the easier it will be to create a picture of what you want. Don’t get caught up in the thunderbolt hype: let yourself off the hook if you don’t have that one, big, perfect thing that you know you cam here to do, and feel good about the fact that you’ll probably fulfill several callings throughout your life. Follow what feels good in the moment, every moment, and it will lead you though a most excellent life. Listen to your intuition: spent five minutes of quiet, by yourself, every day. Be patient and wait to hear from your inner guidance. You have all the answers you need, you just need to give them the chance to get through to you. Follow your fantasies: jump in the deep end and follow your fantasies. What do you fantasize about when you’re staring out the window, or before you go to sleep at night? Do this exercise as if money was not an issue. Tap into what brings you great joy instead of what you think you need to do to survive. Our fantasies are the most revealing peepholes into who we are and what we think is awesome. ⭐️ Our fantasies are our realities in an excuse-free world. Love Yourself: like you’re the only you there is.