Merch Sample order. Influencer message drafts. Allie and I got into a fight about some things that she said about me at dinner and it hurt my feelings. She insisted that she wanted to fall asleep without talking about it and said she did not want to be in a relationship where she is always arguing.. Be more kind to everyone. Respect Allie’s feelings. I’m sleeping on the couch rn but I do not know if that will be well received or the opposite. “In a healthy relationship, both individuals come away from a conflict with a new perspective and a deeper understanding of one another. Needless to say, this kind of health takes time and space. It doesn’t happen in one little talk. So, sleeping on the couch can be a good sign if it means your partner is creating space to reflect and mull things over.“. Allie was trying to walk away from that dinner party with a positive mindset. I took one part of the evening and let it over power the true sentiment of the evening which was fun with friends.. Allie shuts down at signs of conflict. We will need to address it in the morning.. I think I want to be sober.