https://seths.blog/2017/05/groucho-runs-deep/. Groucho Marx famously said, “I don't want to be a member of any club that would have me.“. Connection leads to learning and learning leads to change and change is frightening. If you weren't afraid of change, what could you learn? And if you weren't afraid of rejection, what would you teach? We become what we teach and what we learn.